i don't have much time to expand on this, but if you have like $20 to spare, please go out and buy "crazy love" by francis chan. i really think it will turn your world around... or as my friend TT said, "it whacked me up." i'm pretty sure that's what he said. ha ha... but really... it's a good book that will get you thinking...
i have a lot to say about what i'm learning about this book, but if you go out and get it, then maybe you could let me in on some insight.